No, I said toxic masculinity hurts men too. There was no shitstorm, but I see what you tried to do there. My favorite person in the world is a man-my brother. My second favorite person in the world is another man-my partner. There are two men in this world that I would give my life for. I care about their difficulties as human beings, and they care about mine. You’re just working within a paradigm that I won’t enter because I have too much experience on the receiving end of real gendered oppression. Good luck to you.