Yes to this! So, as I approach my mid thirties, I have begun to contemplate what kind of mother I would be. I just don’t see myself as someone who would be able to stay sane if I’m not afforded the space to foster my mental, physical, and emotional health. I think women have historically passed along a lot of trauma to their children without even meaning to because of the space that was stolen from them to evolve and belong to themselves. Lots of food for thought here! Thank you for sharing this.